quinta-feira, 23 de abril de 2009

What do you prefer?

Not long ago I read in a magazine an article which was about beauty.
I didn't get suprised to find out that women usually got married to men that are judge ugly. However the same is not true for the male ones. Besides that this article reported that marriage between "princess" and "beasts" are longer than marriages between "princes" and "ugly girls". And when both in a marrige are beauties they generally lose interest for each other easily and faster.
Most girls do prefer a nice guy without caring about his appearance.
Although, let's see through men's eyes - or at least try it. How many times when were you walking on the street did you see a couple which was not matching in a beauty query? A handsome guy holding "a not too pretty" girl's hand? - honestly I saw once in my entire life.
In my opinion the male gender is more connected to looks. Good looks I mean. The ideal girlfriend is the girl from beer's propaganda. If she's brainless it doesn't really matter. She's part of his own visual. Trophy wife/girlfriend. She's a kind of visit card. Thefore to men to be beautiful is essential.
But for you what's more important: A good-looking guy that can't deal with a dialogue during miserable five minutes or a "not that handsome one" that is not just intelligent but it's funny too?
What's more likely: walk around with a "package" as part of your own style or with some kind of "Shrek" that puts a grin on your face?
This text is suppost to be funny. DO NOT feel angry or anything worse. I'm just using an stereotype. I personally do not beleive on it. So make your comments. My aim is to build our knowledge together. I'm waiting anxiously for your posts.
ABx

6 comentários:

  1. Aline!!!
    I think your text is great, really funny. I agree with your opinion about the men's preference. I don't know, but I'm feel very happy with my "ugly but honest" iauhaiuhauha if he see this I'm a dead person. But serious, nowadays the people, much men as women, are very worried about looks and appearance, and I desagree. The important is the "beauty inside" obvious that it's no use the man are perfect but ugly. Beauty also is fundamental but isn't the main. kisses Bianca ;)~~

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  2. Hi Aline!
    It's really a funny text!
    I don't have any doubt: I prefer "not that handsome one"! But that one who I can talk to! Talk about movies, books, philosophy...
    Oh, I hope you believe me, because my boyfriend is very handsome, but he is also "that one who puts a grin in my face"! Yeah, I'm very lucky :P

    See you!! Kisses, Juliana

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  3. Hii dear Aline!
    I liked your text a lot, you had a very good idea. =D
    Well... Juliana's answer is mine too.
    Of course we all like men who are handsome but for me the "inside beauty" (using Bianca's words) is more important.
    The first time I saw my boyfriend he was barefoot and I liked him anyway. I think he is a handsome man and he is very very intelligent and a great man.
    As Juliana said,"I'm very lucky"!!! \o/
    hahahaha
    Kisses for you all!

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  4. Hi friend!!
    I loved your text!
    I think that beauty isn't the most important thing, I like to talk a lot so I prefer mans who like it to, but I have to be honest I always see the man's face before to talk with him. And I like both, beauty and talk!!

    Kiisessss my dear friend!!!

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  5. LMAO, first of all!
    Hehehe
    Well, well, now I understand why you asked me Friday to take a look on your text because you wanted a male opinion...
    Hey, actually, your text is really interesting, I remember that once some friends and I expended a whole afternoon discussing something like that..
    Well, I think that we all look first to the visual when we meet someone and I think that is normal, because we don't know the guy or girl, so we "judge" it by its look, you know?
    Well, of course, we all like pretty people, but I wouldn't want someone pretty though brainless next to me! :S
    I think I agree with the girls there.. a brain is much better than a pretty face :D

    Kisses Aline, see you tomorrow and nice text! hehe

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  6. Hey people,

    I really enjoy your comments.
    You all understood what I was talking about.
    But how about my mistakes?
    Come on I don't mind being "corrected".
    If this is the right word.
    Well, as someone said we all look "beauty" before, but after chatting five minutes...I mean if things are happening the way we expect we simple go away.
    ABx

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